How to Get Your Girlfriend Back – She Will End Up With Someone Else

15. May 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back · Tags: ,

Here is something that you know in your heart is true,  even if you don’t want to hear it.  Your ex girlfriend will end up being with someone else if you don’t find a way to get her to come back. Say it out loud to yourself if you need to.  Make it real.  Make it burn a fire inside of you so that you are ready to take some kind of action to win her back.  If you don’t and you just rely on the hope that she somehow changes her mind… you are probably going to end up feeling nothing but heartbreak as you hear that she is now with another man.

It’s true that relationships come and go.  And it is true that you may one day recover and find another.  Is that what you want to hope for? Or would you much rather take some action NOW so that you can win back the woman you deeply care for,  and you don’t have to worry about hearing that she is now with someone else?

Say it out loud to yourself, if you don’t discover how to get your girlfriend back, she WILL end up with someone else!

Truth is,  she has options that you do not have.  All women do.  When a woman breaks up with a guy,  she almost always has another one,  waiting in the shadows for the day that he can slide in and ask her out on a date.  It may be a friend of hers or a co worker.  Or,  it may be the guy that she meets the next time she goes out to a bar or a club with her friends to celebrate being single again.  Unlike guys,  women don’t have to do much at all to get over the break up.

If you assume that she is going to decide to give you a second chance later on,  then you might end up with the stark reality that later on never comes and the only thing you can do is think about her being with another guy.  A lot of men try and take the very passive approach of sitting around and waiting for their ex girlfriend to come to her senses and take them back.  Sad thing is… it never happens.

What can YOU do?

Promise yourself that you are not going to just sit back and hope that she comes back to you.  Take real action to win her back.  Find out an effective way to make her want you again.  Just don’t do the cliche thing and call her up at 2 am when you are lonely.  That is not action,  that is desperation.

You can get your girlfriend back if that is what you choose to do, however, if you sit around and wait for your opportunity to arise… then you will probably be waiting for a LONG time. And you just might end up hearing that she has a NEW man in her life and that you have missed your chance for good. Don’t let that happen to you!

Listen Carefully,

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My Wife Wants to Leave – Can I Change Her Mind or Not?

27. October 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: How to Get Your Wife Back · Tags: , ,

A lot of the times,  I am dealing with the issue of a guy getting dumped by his girlfriend.  That in of itself is painful enough.  What if the relationship is a little deeper than just a boyfriend/girlfriend scenario?  What if it is your wife who wants to leave you?  Can you change her mind or is it something that is outside of your control?

While I would love to be able to give out a single answer to a question like that,  I really can’t.  I mean,  it is possible to change your wife’s mind if she wants to leave you.  Whether or not YOU will be able to do that is another story.

It all depends on the situation,  it depends on you.. and it depends on her.

When a woman is totally fed up with a marriage that just has not worked out,  it can be harder to change her mind than when it is just a typical boyfriend and girlfriend thing.  On the other hand,  many women are more likely to try and work to save their marriage if they see any glimmer of hope,  all because the stakes are much greater.

Just like you would if she were girlfriend,  your best bet is to work more on making her feel attracted to you than to try and appeal to her logical side.  The one good thing,  though,  is that her logical side can also come into play,  because there are things like the house,  the kids (if any),  and the money.

Here’s how to get started on changing her mind:

1)  Avoid any talk as much as you can about splitting up.

The more you talk about it,  the more you look at it as being the most likely outcome… the more it likely it will be.  Of course,  you want to be mentally prepared for the relationship to come to an end,  but when talking with her – you want to talk as little about it as possible.

2)  Work hard on appealing to her emotions so that she is open to working things out.

Use the fact that women are a little more emotional than men are to your advantage.  Instead of sitting down and trying to talk her out of leaving,  do things that make her want to stay.  Think more solution oriented than problem oriented.

3)  More than anything else you can do,  you want to stay positive.

Positive thinking by itself does not always create a positive outcome,  but thinking negatively almost always does bring about a negative outcome.  Keep yourself from feeling down as much as possible.  Do whatever you can to stay in a positive frame of mind,  ESPECIALLY when you are around your wife.

Most of the SAME principles that work in winning back an ex girlfriend will work on your wife as well.  That’s why I highly suggest that you check out this page here.

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Cheating and Your Ex Girlfriend – a Recipe for Repetition

26. October 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Relationship Advice for Men · Tags: , ,

Here is the scenario:  Your ex girlfriend cheated on you,  you found out and did what you thought was the right thing.  You broke up with her.  A little time went by and you felt sad about the way that things ended.  You thought about her and the possibility that maybe you had over reacted to the situation.

At the same time,  your ex girlfriend started to talk to you again.  She apologized for cheating on you because she knew that it broke your heart.  She said all of the right things and made all of the right promises.  That made you think that maybe the right thing to do was to act as if the cheating was in the past and that you and her should get back together.

Is that the right decision to make?

As I usually like to point out,  not all situation are going to be exactly the same,  so not all situations can be solved in the same way.  There are some situations where it might be just as well to forgive and forget about her cheating on you and get back together to see if you can work things out.

On the other hand,  there are going to be many situations where that just is not the case at all.  There are many instances where the cheating was really just a preview of what will come later on down the line.

You’ve probably heard the line,  “Once a cheater,  always a cheater.”

Usually it gets applied to men and not to women.  But it certainly can and should be applied to women as well.  If her only way to deal with problems inside the relationship is to look outside the relationship… that is a recipe for disaster.

Moreover,  it is a recipe for repetition.

When someone uses cheating as a way to deal with relationship issues,  then until they learn a better way,  you can’t really be surprised if and when they cheat again.  They need to have a new habit to replace the old one.

Before you consider the idea of getting back together,  remember this.  ALL relationships have their problems from time to time.  While things may seem like they are going perfectly right now,  that does not mean that there will not be any bumps in the road later on.  When those bumps come up and there are issues again,  do you expect her to remain faithful… or will she go back to her old behavior and cheat on you again?

This is a reality that you need to look at.  You may want to believe that she will never cheat on you again,  and that very well may be true.  On the other hand,  the opposite may also be true.

She might go back to cheating whenever she feels like there are problems or issues in the relationship.  And then,  you will be back where you started.

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Just Another Sad Love Song

23. October 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Relationship Advice for Men · Tags:

One of the most popular or really common things that people do when they go through the abyss that is breaking up is… they sit back and listen to as many sad love songs as they can.  You know you’ve done this,  we all have.  You also know that it does nothing but make you feel sadder than you were before or maybe a little more sentimental.  It’s definitely not a constructive thing to do,  yet it FEELS so good!

If you find yourself sitting back,  turning on the radio to an easy listening station,  then you might want to snap back for a moment and really think about what you are doing.

Are you just self indulging in your sadness?

I’d be willing to bet that you are choosing to lose yourself in the comfort that is another sad love song when what you REALLY should be doing is getting out,  having some fun,  and forgetting about your troubles for a while.

Put on something up beat,  get amped up to go out… and do it!

That will do a lot more for you than searching for the most perfect love song that you can find just so that you can feel better about feeling worse.

Sexual Tension and Seduction – Why They Go Hand in Hand

10. October 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Dating Advice for Men · Tags: , , , ,

The word,  seduction,  may give rise to all sorts of ideas in a man’s head about what that is and what it really means to seduce a woman.  All it really boils down to,  is that to seduce a woman,  you want to create the setting and the situation where she wants to become physically intimate with you.  For every woman and every situation,  how you go about seducing her will be a little bit different.  No two women are exactly alike,  though they will share an amazing amount of similarity.

This is why seduction is usually referred to as an art,  because there really is no hard science to it.  Just like any other social science,  the science behind seduction has too many variables at play to come up with an exact method that works on all women.

However,  there is one element in the art of seduction that you must incorporate into every situation.  That element is sexual tension.  When a woman feels that irresistible pull of sexual tension between her and a man… as long as the other variables are just right,  you can bet that she is just waiting for him to make his move.

Don’t get the wrong idea about sexual tension. 

Though in  many other contexts,  the word tension is a bad thing,  in this case… it is quite the opposite.  You do not want to avoid this kind of tension with a woman,  because sexual tension is the catalyst for being able to properly seduce a woman.  It’s your job to learn how to create sexual tension,  and then,  to have a good time using it to build up a lot of attraction and chemistry with a woman.  Do that,  and you will find that it becomes a lot easier to seduce a woman.

So,  you might be asking yourself right about now… what causes sexual tension?

Well,  the cause of sexual tension has a lot to do with unresolved feelings that two people have with one another.  It can manifest in many different forms.  Sometimes,  the two people almost act as if they do not quite like each other,  yet underneath the surface… they really do.  Other times it will manifest more so as just playfully teasing each other.  It’s kind of like a dance that you have with a woman,  even though the two of you may not be dancing at all.

Why do you really need to know how to create sexual tension with a woman?

If there is an absence of sexual tension with a woman… there usually is an absence of that passionate heat that leads to mind blowing sex.  Most guys will end up in the friend zone with a woman if there is no sexual tension at all.  You might get the pleasure of getting to hang out and talk with her…  but that is the only pleasure that you are going to get.

You need to work on creating sexual tension with a woman.

It’s not always easy to get in the mindset where you are actively seeking out to create sexual tension with a woman.  This is especially true if you are used to using the usual courting methods that men use to try and woo a woman.  You have to be a bit “naughty” but know that this will only come back to you in a GOOD WAY.  This is what you want.  You want her to get to the point where she thinks about you and her in bed.

When you create enough tension with her,  you don’t have to get all tied up in thinking about what your next move is going to be,  she will become easy for you,  even if she is not usually easy for any man.  There is no use in running from the need to cause sexual tension with a woman,  because if you truly want to seduce a woman and make her want you… then this element HAS to be present between you and her.

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How to Get a Girlfriend After the Break Up – 3 Tips For Moving On

10. October 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Dating Advice for Men · Tags: , , , ,

As a general rule,  I’d like to see just about every guy who wants to get his girlfriend back actually get to see that happen.  On the other hand,  I have seen so many situations where a guy is just totally hung up on his ex girlfriend and she really isn’t any good for him at all.  When that happens,  I’d much rather see a guy move on and find a new girlfriend.

In a perfect world,  we would all get the woman we wanted when we wanted her,  and she would totally reciprocate the feelings that we have for her.  Well, we all know that this is an imperfect world,  right?  So,  there are many times when you can do all of the “right” things and expect to end up back with your ex girlfriend and it just does not happen.

At that point,  you have to be able to find a way to get over her and move on to the next woman.  You have to actually look forward to moving on to the next girlfriend.

Here are 3 tips that you can use to get a new girlfriend AFTER the break up:

1)  Don’t use your ex girlfriend as a sob story ploy for sympathy.

It’s going to be tempting to bring up the ex girl with the new one,  but don’t do it.  A brief,  and I mean brief mention of her is okay but anymore than that…is not a good thing.  You’d be surprised at quickly genuine sympathy can change to disgust in a woman’s eyes when she sees a guy who just won’t let go of the past.  To really AMPLIFY your chances with the next girlfriend,  keep the ex girlfriend where she belongs… in the past.

2)  Give yourself time to grieve the end of the last relationship by not getting too attached to the next woman.

This is a pattern that most men wind up creating for themselves.  They break up with a woman that they are totally in love with,  then the next girl comes along and guess what?  They fall in love with her in what seems like an instant.  Next thing you know,  they are attached to her and can’t be separated for nothing in the world.  You DO NOT want to be that guy.  Give yourself time to get whatever residual feelings and emotions that you have out of your system and play the field for a little bit.  It’s NOT a bad thing at all.

3)  Find out what women REALLY want from a guy,  not what you are TAUGHT they want.

Too many guys get spoon fed this idealized ideal of what women want and it’s not really all that accurate.  Sure, she wants a decent guy,  but she’s not clamoring for the knight in shining armor like you think she is.  Most women nowadays can take care of themselves and they like that.  What they want is a guy that they can share the good times with.  Be THAT guy.

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When She Dumps You – How to Handle The Rejection

28. September 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Relationship Advice for Men · Tags: , , , ,

There are certain things in life that we dread more than others. One of the most common fears that people of all walks of life have is that of being rejected. More specifically, being rejected by someone who matters to you. And this is one of the first feelings that you have to deal with when you break up with someone. You have to sort through all of the stuff swirling in your head, most of all… you have to handle the fact that she rejected you. For some guys, that ends up being too much to handle all at once.

Luckily, there are ways of going about handling rejection that can smooth things out and make it easier on you. While it still is never a great feeling to be rejected by someone, you can get in the frame of mind where it does not devastate you. You can kind of roll with it, admit that it sucks, and then bounce back better than ever.

Here’s some advice on what to do when she dumps you so that you can handle the rejection:

1) Take a long and hard look at whether or not you were at fault for some of it.

Don’t take 100 percent responsibility for the break up if there were things that she did wrong. Just take a long look at what you did, because these are the things that you can control and change. If you can spot some behavior that was not really beneficial to the relationship, then that can be something that you can work on changing. Learn from the experience so that it makes you a BETTER man for it.

2) Make it a priority to keep yourself sociable so that you don’t get lost in a funk.

After getting dumped, you really need to be around the people that accept you so that you realize it was just one person, it was just her and not everyone feels that way. Plus, if you have good friends, they will probably do a little to cheer you up. Don’t stop having fun with your life just because a woman rejected you. There are many more out there and you don’t have to get hung up on just her.

3) Learn what really makes a woman tick so that the next girlfriend never wants to dump you.

Think of each girlfriend as a new set of training wheels, helping you to figure out what kind of women you like and how to handle relationships. When you learn what really makes a woman tick, you won’t have to worry about her dumping you, because you will have the confidence of knowing that you can turn her back on to you almost at will. Then, it will be up to YOU if and when the relationship ends.

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Texting Women – What Happens When She Does Not Text Back

27. September 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Dating Advice for Men · Tags: , , , ,

Oh, it is frustrating. You’ve worked up your nerve, you’ve pulled out your cell phone and you sent off that text message that it took you 30 minutes to think of. You are absolutely sure that she will be stunned, taken back, and deeply intrigued by the message that you just sent her. So, you sit back and wait with a smile on your face, sure that your phone will be buzzing with the sound of her sending something back. It does not work out like that, though. You sit there staring at your phone and wondering what’s up. Maybe the text did not go through. Maybe you sent it to the wrong person by mistake. So, you double check and see that it did go out and it went to the right number.

She’s NOT texting you back.

What should you do? Should you send off a barrage of messages just to make sure that you get her attention? Were you totally wrong in thinking that you had crafted the perfect text to get her intrigued and interested in you?

Most of the time, all you really have to do is calm your nerves. No matter what the reason for her not texting you back, there is no reason to get all worked up about it. Maybe she really is busy and does not have time. Maybe she does not want to respond. Point is, getting all worked up about it does not change a thing and if you go on a barrage of sending her more and more messages… you are just going to look like a desperate man. And annoying to boot.

Find something to do that will distract you and keep you from giving into the urge of trying to get in contact with her. The best way to do this, if you have the means to do so, is to communicate with another woman. It’s so easy to get your mind off of one when you have another as back up.

If you don’t have a back up, just keep yourself away from the phone. Don’t do the thing that you know you want to do because it is only going to make you look like a jerk to her. Fact is, there are a million reasons why she might not be texting you back, from not liking you one bit to being tied up at work.

Here’s another thing that you can do when you get past the anxiety of worrying about what she is up to. Analyze what you did and see if you made any mistakes. Sometimes, you can think that a text will sound perfect one minute and then go back to it later and see that it actually reads kind of weird or bland.

Most importantly, though, this should be a wake up call and a sign that you need to expand your social circle a bit and have more women at your disposal to talk to, date, or hang out with.

If you did, you would not worry one bit about texting a woman and not having her respond back to you right away.

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How to Get a Girlfriend to Come Back to You – The Power of Being Aloof With Her

27. September 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , , ,

Trying to deal with a break up with an ex girlfriend is not easy when you just feel like placing all of your attention on her. That is a hard feeling to resist, that’s for sure. It’s easy to say that you are not going to call her, or that you will keep busy to keep your mind off of her, it’s a much different story when you try and put that in practice. Guys usually know on some level that they should not place too much attention on their ex girlfriend, but it is something that they wind up doing anyway.

I want to try and show you just how beneficial it can be to be aloof with your ex girlfriend, even if deep down inside you crave her attention and you want to get her back. For some guys, this will be somewhat easy to do. For others, it will be one of the hardest endeavors that they will get themselves into.

Why is it so important to be aloof with an ex girlfriend?

I hope this comes as no surprise, but your ex girlfriend is probably already going to think that you want her back. This is true whether she dumped you or you dumped her. So, that is one of the first things that is going to pop into her head if you call her up or try to get her to hang out with you. As long as she is feeling that way, she can easily defend any advances that you make. It’s almost second nature for her to do so.

When you are aloof with your ex girlfriend, you are throwing her off balance. She expects that you are going to try and get her back and give her a lot of attention. So, just by being aloof, you can kind of get around whatever defenses that she might have up against you. That’s one of the benefits of being aloof with an ex girlfriend.

You also get to spark her curiosity about you.

The other thing that happens when you are aloof around your ex girlfriend, is that you spark curiosity in her mind. Now, curiosity is a powerful tool for creating both interest and attraction with a woman. Most guys never do anything to make their ex girlfriend curious about them, so they always seem like old news to her. Old news gets ignored easily. It’s the fresh stuff that really intrigues people.

Your ex girlfriend is like anyone else. A part of her will want to know what’s going on in your life if you are not trying so hard to spend time with her and be around her. And that is one of the stepping stones to getting her back, because it creates interest and attraction which eventually can lead to her wanting to date you again.

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What Qualities Will Make a Man Seem Sexually Attractive to Women?

24. September 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Relationship Advice for Men · Tags: , , ,

It should come as no surprise that there is a HUGE gap in what men and women think about when it comes to sexual attraction.  The qualities that most men will assume women find very sexually attractive are usually a LOT lower on the charts than they think.  There are numerous men in gyms across America who think that by bulking up and getting HUGE,  they will become sexually attractive to women without ever taking the time to find out that most women do not like the HUGE look of a body builder.  If you really want to be seen as sexually enticing to a woman,  then you have to learn what most women look for,  not what you think they look for.

This article will not go into all of the misconceptions that men have about what they think women want.  Rather,  the focus will be on 3 qualities that women DO find sexually appealing.  You might be surprised at some of the things that turn on a woman,  especially when you realize that many of them do not seem sexual at all.

These are 3 qualities that most women do find to be a turn on in a man:

1.  A man who has the ability to go and do his own thing without needing a woman’s approval.

Want to be a REAL MAN in a woman’s eyes?  It’s not about how much weight you can bench.  A much better way to convey your true alpha male status is to show a woman that you have an independent side.  That you do not need to ask her for directions on what you should do.  Take a stand and show her that you can do your own thing,  that you are an independent guy and she will get turned on by you.  Guys who are too dependent on a woman tend to lose their luster very quickly in a woman’s eyes.  Women get tired of being with a man with no backbone whatsoever.

2.  Having a more athletic physique.

Time and time again,  women respond that they enjoy the athletic physique much more so than the bulked up body builder look.  There are some women who have a fetish for that huge look, but on the whole,  most women would rather have a man who looks athletic.  Think about it like this.  The athletic looking guys tend to have more stamina and endurance than the big,  bulky guys do.  Translation:  A much better time in the bedroom!

3.  She wants you to be emotional to a point.

Most women do not want to be with a guy who shows no emotion at all.  How fun would it be for her if you do not show any emotions at all.  At the same time,  you have to realize that it should only come to a certain point.  Cry while watching a cheesy romance movie and you might look like more of a “girlfriend” in her eyes than you do a real man.  On the other hand,  if you cry at a funeral or at the sight of a newborn baby… that can be a GOOD thing as it shows you have real emotions.

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How to Get Over a Break Up – 3 Tips To Put It Behind You

21. September 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Relationship Advice for Men · Tags: , , ,

How do you get over a break up?  For a lot of people,  as soon as they break up with someone that they love,  they immediately go into a funk.  They turn on the easy listening station and indulge in the saddest love songs that they can find.  They seclude themselves and sit back thinking about all of the memories that they have of the one they have broken up with.  All of these things will just work to make it HARDER for you to get over a break up and make you feel WORSE about the entire situation.

So,  what is a much more positive way to get over a break up?

I won’t tell you that all you have to do is not think about it,  because that is a pretty lazy and unrealistic suggestion to make.  Fact is,  you are going to have to deal with those lingering feelings coming back to you.  And you are going to have to try and find a way to resist the temptations of indulging in feeling sorry for yourself about the break up.

Here are 3 tips to help you get over a break up and put it behind you:

1)  Allow yourself to feel SOME grief about what happened.

Try and suppress the emotions too much and they are just going to come back with a vengeance.  You have to let yourself feel some of the grief.  It’s part of the process and trying to suppress it just won’t work.  At some point,  you will break down,  and then you will feel even worse about it if you think that you should be able to suppress it completely.

2)  Talk about things with friends,  just not too much.

Sometimes getting it off of your chest can be the most therapeutic thing that you can do.  So,  if you have some friends who are willing to talk things out with you for a little while, do that.  Just don’t get too long winded about it.

3)  Get out and learn how to approach women so that you can meet someone else.

Not all break ups are worth trying to repair.  And sometimes,  no matter how hard you try… it’s just not going to happen.  When you realize that it is just NOT going to happen,  then you really DO have to get out there and meet someone new.  Sometimes that is all that you need to do in order to get over someone.  Replace them with a new girlfriend.

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