The way that you approach your ex girlfriend will have a big impact on whether or not you end up getting back together with her.  Most men will approach an ex girlfriend that they want to get back with like a love sick puppy dog,  hoping that they get attention from her.  If you do this,  you are probably setting yourself up for a big fat disappointment.  You have to approach your ex girlfriend in a way that is going to set you up for success at getting her back.

When a relationship ends,  most of the time it is because that is what the woman wants.  More often than not,  the break up will be initiated by the woman,  and the guy just has to deal with the cards he is dealt.  The problem is,  most men end up feeling like they have gotten their hearts broken and it makes them act in a way that is less attractive.  So,  they end up having a hard time trying to get her back.

Here’s how to approach your ex girlfriend if you want her back:

1)  Before you make your first move on her,  you have to work on getting over what happened.

If you don’t allow yourself to deal with and process the break up so that it no longer stings that much,  you are going to let it show when you do approach her.  And more than likely,  that will make you act in a way that does little to make her want you back.  So,  give yourself some time to heal and deal with what happened.  You don’t want to bring any emotional baggage with you when it comes time to approach your ex girlfriend.

2)  When you approach your ex girlfriend,  it has to be in the context of just hanging out.

Don’t get on the phone with your ex girlfriend and immediately blurt out the hope that you have of getting back together.  If you do that,  more than likely she will end up coming up with an excuse to avoid seeing you.  You need to approach your ex girlfriend more in the context of just spending some time hanging out together.  That way,  she is more likely to be up for it.

3)  You have to condition yourself to approach your ex girlfriend as if she was a new woman in your life.

This may be the hardest part,  but as long as you DO condition yourself to see her in this way,  then you CAN get her back.  See,  if you come at her reminding her of the past,  then part of that past is whatever made her want to break up with you.  You don’t want her to be thinking of that,  do you?  When you approach her like a new woman and leave the past in the past,  it’s easier to set yourself up to make her want you back in her life.

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