How many guys have wondered this before?

Once the relationship is over,  can you still be friends with an ex girlfriend?

Well,  even though it sounds like the standard answer for any relationship question… it all depends.

It depends on what the relationship was like,  how the break up went along,  and whether or not you are trying to win her back.

If you want to be friends with her just because there always was  a sense of friendship between the two of you and the break up wasn’t all that messy and neither one of you want to get back with each other… then by all means go for it.

However,  if the relationship ended on a very sour note,  trying to be friends with your ex girlfriend can just make the whole situation worse and more complicated than it has to be.  This is especially true if either you or your ex girlfriend has hopes of the relationship rekindling.  It’s hard to just be friends with someone you want to be more than friends with.

Especially when they end up dating someone else and you have to deal with the two of the being together in front of you… which you will have to deal with if you keep the friendship going along.

Most guys who ask the question of whether or not they should still be friends with an ex girlfriend do so because they want to get back together again.  If that is the case,  then you really need to avoid just being friends with her at all costs.

Why?

Because women have a way of compartmentalizing their guy friends into a category where you basically become off limits to even think about dating.  You don’t want to get stuck in that category if you want to get your girlfriend back.

It might sound like the right thing to do,  and people may say that you should try and be friends with her… but being friends with an ex girlfriend is NOT the way to get her back.  Just ask any guy that has remained friends with an ex only to watch her date total douchebags and not even give a thought to dating them again.

If you want to get your girlfriend back,  then I suggest that you go here:  How to Get a Girlfriend Back in 30 Days or LESS Review to learn about a dead easy system that will show you how to make it happen.

Or,  if you just need to move on and learn more about how to attract women,  then get your FREE Report by clicking here:  How to Attract Women

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