It’s still kind of amazing to me that a simple social website would become so big that it actually is a factor in so many relationship situations nowadays. Chances are, it has become a staple of your everyday life, as most people have an account with Facebook. And some people take it to the level that it is a huge part of their social life. Nothing wrong with that, but it poses the question, should you be friends with your ex girlfriend on Facebook?
I’d love to give a simple yes or no answer to this question, but unfortunately… it is NOT that simple. See, there are so many possible scenarios and situations, that one blanket answer is not going to cover every single one of them.
So, I’d like to explore a few common situations and give an answer to those about whether or not you should be friends with your ex girlfriend on Facebook.
Situation Number One- You and your ex girlfriend have just broken up and are already friends with each other.
In this situation, my answer would be YES, it would be fine to still be her friend on Facebook. Deliberately taking her off would kind of show that you are being vindictive (unattractive quality for a man to possess) and that extra effort no matter how small it really is, shows that it means a LOT to you. So, in this situation, I’d say to keep her on your list, and if she takes you off, then oh well.
Situation Number Two- It’s been a long time and you want to make your move on her now.
In this situation, Facebook is nothing more than a channel of communication that you want to use to get your ‘foot in the door’ so to speak. So, this is another scenario where I would see absolutely nothing wrong with sending her a request, just to see what happens. Don’t go overboard and bombard her with messages asking her if she is going to accept you or not. Send a simple request, with maybe a funny little comment or something and then wait.
Situation Number Three- She has started dating someone else and you are not currently friends on Facebook.
This is a situation where I would say NO, do not try to get on her friends list. You don’t want to be the guy that gets in the way of her current relationship, because if he gets weird about the situation and you are the cause for that weirdness, then it looks bad on you. Plus, getting her back when she is dating someone else means that you have to be a little bit “stealth” about your intentions, so putting yourself out in the open like that is a big no-no.
Listen Carefully,
If you REALLY want to know how to get your girlfriend back, you need to get your hands on a PROVEN strategy…
Go to: Ex Girlfriend Back System to Get Her Back FAST…
Copyright © 2011 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.