When I get the chance to speak to someone face to face about them wanting to get back with an ex girlfriend, one of the first things that I try to find out is WHY they want to get her back. Now, you may think that this does not matter too much, but it really does. See, if you want to get your girlfriend back, but you don’t really know the reason why, how do you know that it will make you happy when you DO get her back?

Let me explain a little more:

A couple of years ago, a really good friend of mine came to me to get some guidance on how to get back with his ex girlfriend. Now, since we were and still are good friends, I had some real insight to what his relationship with her really was like. From my vantage point, and from the vantage point of most of his buddies, it was a GOOD thing that they had broken up.

She was the kind of girlfriend that expected to have a lot of money spent on her. And she was also the type of girlfriend that liked to have a LOT of attention on her at all times. That was not just exclusive to my friend though. Anytime she was around his other friends, she was just a little too flirty, if you know what I mean.

So, I asked him WHY he wanted her back. And the only thing that he could think of really, was that he was lonely without her. My advice to him was to get out more and meet new women. Only then would he really know if he wanted his ex girlfriend back or if he was just trying to replace his loneliness.

Do you know WHY you want YOUR ex girlfriend back?

If your only reasons are that you are lonely without her or that you miss her, but you really cannot find anything more specific about what it is that you miss, then you may end up getting disappointed when you DO get her back and things are not all peaches and cream. Some relationships are meant to end, and going back to the old girlfriend is not a step forward, it is a step backwards.

By the same token, though, if you can come up with a lot of reasons and specific ones at that for why you want her back and it goes DEEPER than just not wanting to be alone or feeling bad because you don’t have a girlfriend, then you may be on the RIGHT track to try to get her back. While some relationships are meant to end, some are definitely meant to be saved.

Before you go in with 110 percent effort trying to get your girlfriend back, make sure that SHE is the one you really want and that there are specific reasons for this. If it’s just because you are lonely and you miss her, then all that really means is that you need to meet some new women.

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