Here is the scenario:  Your ex girlfriend cheated on you,  you found out and did what you thought was the right thing.  You broke up with her.  A little time went by and you felt sad about the way that things ended.  You thought about her and the possibility that maybe you had over reacted to the situation.

At the same time,  your ex girlfriend started to talk to you again.  She apologized for cheating on you because she knew that it broke your heart.  She said all of the right things and made all of the right promises.  That made you think that maybe the right thing to do was to act as if the cheating was in the past and that you and her should get back together.

Is that the right decision to make?

As I usually like to point out,  not all situation are going to be exactly the same,  so not all situations can be solved in the same way.  There are some situations where it might be just as well to forgive and forget about her cheating on you and get back together to see if you can work things out.

On the other hand,  there are going to be many situations where that just is not the case at all.  There are many instances where the cheating was really just a preview of what will come later on down the line.

You’ve probably heard the line,  “Once a cheater,  always a cheater.”

Usually it gets applied to men and not to women.  But it certainly can and should be applied to women as well.  If her only way to deal with problems inside the relationship is to look outside the relationship… that is a recipe for disaster.

Moreover,  it is a recipe for repetition.

When someone uses cheating as a way to deal with relationship issues,  then until they learn a better way,  you can’t really be surprised if and when they cheat again.  They need to have a new habit to replace the old one.

Before you consider the idea of getting back together,  remember this.  ALL relationships have their problems from time to time.  While things may seem like they are going perfectly right now,  that does not mean that there will not be any bumps in the road later on.  When those bumps come up and there are issues again,  do you expect her to remain faithful… or will she go back to her old behavior and cheat on you again?

This is a reality that you need to look at.  You may want to believe that she will never cheat on you again,  and that very well may be true.  On the other hand,  the opposite may also be true.

She might go back to cheating whenever she feels like there are problems or issues in the relationship.  And then,  you will be back where you started.

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