How to Get a Girlfriend to Come Back to You – The Power of Being Aloof With Her

27. September 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , , ,

Trying to deal with a break up with an ex girlfriend is not easy when you just feel like placing all of your attention on her. That is a hard feeling to resist, that’s for sure. It’s easy to say that you are not going to call her, or that you will keep busy to keep your mind off of her, it’s a much different story when you try and put that in practice. Guys usually know on some level that they should not place too much attention on their ex girlfriend, but it is something that they wind up doing anyway.

I want to try and show you just how beneficial it can be to be aloof with your ex girlfriend, even if deep down inside you crave her attention and you want to get her back. For some guys, this will be somewhat easy to do. For others, it will be one of the hardest endeavors that they will get themselves into.

Why is it so important to be aloof with an ex girlfriend?

I hope this comes as no surprise, but your ex girlfriend is probably already going to think that you want her back. This is true whether she dumped you or you dumped her. So, that is one of the first things that is going to pop into her head if you call her up or try to get her to hang out with you. As long as she is feeling that way, she can easily defend any advances that you make. It’s almost second nature for her to do so.

When you are aloof with your ex girlfriend, you are throwing her off balance. She expects that you are going to try and get her back and give her a lot of attention. So, just by being aloof, you can kind of get around whatever defenses that she might have up against you. That’s one of the benefits of being aloof with an ex girlfriend.

You also get to spark her curiosity about you.

The other thing that happens when you are aloof around your ex girlfriend, is that you spark curiosity in her mind. Now, curiosity is a powerful tool for creating both interest and attraction with a woman. Most guys never do anything to make their ex girlfriend curious about them, so they always seem like old news to her. Old news gets ignored easily. It’s the fresh stuff that really intrigues people.

Your ex girlfriend is like anyone else. A part of her will want to know what’s going on in your life if you are not trying so hard to spend time with her and be around her. And that is one of the stepping stones to getting her back, because it creates interest and attraction which eventually can lead to her wanting to date you again.

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Get My Ex Back – She’s Not Returning My Calls, What Do I Do?

04. June 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , , ,

Now that you and your ex girlfriend are no longer together, you find that she is no longer taking your phone calls. She’s letting them go straight to voice mail and totally ignoring them. You know that she knows you have been calling her, and you kind of know that she knows that you want to get her back. What can you do when you want your girlfriend back, but she is not taking your phone calls?

This is a very common phenomenon when it comes to breakups and one person wants to get the other one back. You feel like you want to be in contact with her as much as you can, and she does not really feel that way at all. No matter what happens, you have to realize one thing and I have to be blunt about it.

The phone calls have to stop.

This is true no matter what you want to do. If you want to get over your ex girlfriend and you are still calling her and trying to connect with her, then it is not going to happen. It’s like picking at an open would and wondering why it is not healing. And if you want to get her back, you are doing one of the worst things possible to help your cause. You are going to be thought of as being a guy who won’t leave her alone and that is not a good thing.

I know, you see it in the movies and on television. The persistent guy gets the girl. She does not want anything to do with him and over time, she falls for him because of his persistence. And, occasionally you will hear about the same thing happening in real life. So, you think that it cannot be a bad thing to be persistent. Well, it can be a bad thing and most of the time it is.

No matter what, you need to stop making the phone calls, at least for a little while. Every time that you call her and she does not pick up the phone, her contempt for you is going to grow. The more it grows, the lower your chances of actually getting her back are going to get.

Give it some time and then make a comeback…

Anytime that things get to the point where one person wants to break up with the other, you have to give things some time and some space. Otherwise, they just get worse than they were. You can make a comeback, as long as time has passed and she does not feel so strongly about the way that things went down. Do whatever you can to distract yourself in a healthy way. When you want to pick up the phone, call a friend. Hit the gym. Make it a point to live a busy life for a little while. Then, with the right strategy and techniques, you can make your come back and she will be a LOT more open to making it happen.

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How to Get Your Girlfriend Back – What to Do When You Are Desperate

27. May 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , ,

I can totally understand that you may be feeling desperate to get your girlfriend back. No one wants to get dumped, especially when you feel like the relationship was going good or at least like you really liked being with her.

Anyone that says that they cannot relate to feeling this way has either had very little dating experience or they are just lying to themselves. It’s pretty common to feel desperate in a situation like this.

You do have to find a way to get over that desperate feeling though. You don’t want to feel this way forever, do you?

Lots of times the desperate feelings comes from either not knowing what to do to get her back, or it just comes from the realization that you are feeling lonely without her. So, if you can find a way to get over that lonely feeling or you can find a way to get your girlfriend back, that feeling of desperation WILL go away. Trust me, it does not have to feel like this forever.

Here’s a little advice on what to do if you are feeling desperate to get your girlfriend back:

1) Don’t allow yourself to become isolated after breaking up.

It might feel good to be alone for a little while and that is okay. However, if you let yourself be alone for too long, then all of that isolation will just make things worse. If one of your buddies calls you up and wants to hang out, do it, even if that means that you have to push yourself. You can’t stay feeling isolated and get over the break up. It just won’t happen.

2) Don’t trick yourself into believing that everything was your fault.

In any relationship, there are two people involved. It takes two people to have a relationship and it takes two people for one to break up. So, don’t go thinking that everything had to be your fault. Even if there were some things that you could have and should have done differently, not everything that led to the break up was probably all your fault. You have to know this or else you are going to feel like you just cannot get it right.

3) Don’t be afraid to get some guidance on getting back with your ex girlfriend.

If you have come to the conclusion that you want to get back together with your ex girlfriend, don’t be afraid to seek out some guidance. While you may not know it right this minute, there are some excellent resources out there that can help you to figure out a plan to get her back. It does make it a lot easier to get some proven advice on exactly what to do to win back your ex girlfriend.

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Get Your Ex Back – Should You Be Friends With Her on Facebook?

27. May 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , ,

It’s still kind of amazing to me that a simple social website would become so big that it actually is a factor in so many relationship situations nowadays. Chances are, it has become a staple of your everyday life, as most people have an account with Facebook. And some people take it to the level that it is a huge part of their social life. Nothing wrong with that, but it poses the question, should you be friends with your ex girlfriend on Facebook?

I’d love to give a simple yes or no answer to this question, but unfortunately… it is NOT that simple. See, there are so many possible scenarios and situations, that one blanket answer is not going to cover every single one of them.

So, I’d like to explore a few common situations and give an answer to those about whether or not you should be friends with your ex girlfriend on Facebook.

Situation Number One- You and your ex girlfriend have just broken up and are already friends with each other.

In this situation, my answer would be YES, it would be fine to still be her friend on Facebook. Deliberately taking her off would kind of show that you are being vindictive (unattractive quality for a man to possess) and that extra effort no matter how small it really is, shows that it means a LOT to you. So, in this situation, I’d say to keep her on your list, and if she takes you off, then oh well.

Situation Number Two- It’s been a long time and you want to make your move on her now.

In this situation, Facebook is nothing more than a channel of communication that you want to use to get your ‘foot in the door’ so to speak. So, this is another scenario where I would see absolutely nothing wrong with sending her a request, just to see what happens. Don’t go overboard and bombard her with messages asking her if she is going to accept you or not. Send a simple request, with maybe a funny little comment or something and then wait.

Situation Number Three- She has started dating someone else and you are not currently friends on Facebook.

This is a situation where I would say NO, do not try to get on her friends list. You don’t want to be the guy that gets in the way of her current relationship, because if he gets weird about the situation and you are the cause for that weirdness, then it looks bad on you. Plus, getting her back when she is dating someone else means that you have to be a little bit “stealth” about your intentions, so putting yourself out in the open like that is a big no-no.

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How to Get Your Girl Back – Will She Come Back to You?

17. May 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , , , ,

 

A lot of men end up in a situation where they break up with their girlfriend and they want to know how to get her back.  You might be wondering,  will she come back to you?  The good news is that you can get your girlfriend back.  After all,  a lot of men have done some pretty wicked things to their girls and gotten them back,  so you should be able to easily.

Here are some powerful tips to get your girl back:

1.  Give her time and space.

This may not be what you want to hear,  but the worst thing that you can do is to drive her away with too much attention right after a break up.  She needs to have a little bit of time without you to miss you,  and you need time to regain your composure.

2.  Go out and have fun.

You don’t want to end up worse off after your breakup with your girlfriend.  Get out and spend some time with your buddies.  They will make you feel better and forget your worries for a while.  Besides,  you want something to tell your girl if you two get back together.  You don’t want to say that you spent all your time miserable and alone,  do you?

3.  Create a plan of action to get her back.

She is not going to come back to you just because you are thinking about her and you want her back.  You have to have a real plan to get her back.  One that works.

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Get Your Girlfriend Back – Is It a Good Idea to Send Your Ex Girlfriend Text Messages?

09. May 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: ,

Nowadays, just about everyone sends text messages. It’s no longer a rarity at all. It’s so easy to just pick up your cell phone, punch out a little message and not even give it a second thought. That can be a good thing and it can be a bad thing. It’s way too easy to get thinking about your ex girlfriend and decide that the best idea is to send her some kinky little text message, only to regret it later on.

So, is it a good idea to send your ex girlfriend text messages if you want to get her back?

More often than not, sending your ex girlfriend text messages is not exactly the best thing that you can do. I mean, most of the time when you are thinking about sending her a message, it’s with the hope that just staying in contact with her will do you some good or that you will finally be able to type out those magic words that changes how she feels and makes her want you back.

Of course, the reality usually ends up being much different.

Now, I won’t go as far as to say that you should never text your ex girlfriend, it can be a good thing. As long as you do it sparingly, and it does not come across like you are desperate for her to text you back. If that is the impression that she gets… it’s not going to go over too well at all.

The other reality is… the text message has pretty much replaced the drunken phone call that every guy has done at least once in his past and regretted it later. 10 years ago, every guy had placed at least one of these calls and then woke up the next day wishing that he could take it back. So, that is another thing to consider, when is it that you really want to text your ex girlfriend?

When should you text your ex girlfriend?

Like I said, it’s much more effective if you use it sparingly, and really only as a way to keep the lines of communications open with her. Maybe send her a quick text mentioning some small talk and then let her respond on her own time. Whatever you do, don’t wait by the phone for her to respond. If an hour passes and she does not respond and then you send her another message asking her why she did not respond, it’s going to read like a man desperate for some attention.

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My Ex Girlfriend is Warming Back Up to Me, But There IS This One Thing…

15. April 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , , ,

From e-mail:

“Chris,  I’ve been following some of your advice and it seemed to be working right up until now.  I’ve been doing all of the things that you recommend,  and me and my ex girlfriend have now been talking and flirting back and forth for about the last 2 weeks.

She said at the beginning that she had started dating someone else,  but now she says that never happened.  She says that it was just something she said to make me think that she was unavailable.

What gives?

I can’t seem to get over this and now I am wondering if getting back together really is a good idea.  What do you think about this situation that I am in?  Should I keep trying or what?”

Jake,  Minnesota.

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Jake,

Let me see if I get this right.

You have an ex girlfriend that you wanted to get back together with,  you followed my advice,  it worked,  and then she told you that she was dating someone else,  but kept talking to you.

Now she says that she really wasn’t dating someone else,  that it was just something she said because she wanted you to think she was unavailable.

What do I think?

I think that you are pretty damn close to getting what you want,  only it is not happening *exactly* the way that you want it to and now you are panicking about it.

Here’s the way I see it:

She probably was either telling the truth that she had made up having another guy,  or she had another guy in mind but nothing happened yet.  The only reason why she told you this was to protect herself from the possibility of getting hurt or disappointed again.

Then,  you started making the RIGHT moves,  and that made her change her mind.  More specifically,  it made her change the way that she felt about you.

That’s a GOOD thing!  It really is.

Who cares if she made up some story about there being another guy,  or if there was really another guy.  Point is,  what she is saying without directly saying it is,  that does not matter now because she is feeling attracted to YOU again!

Isn’t it funny how we will fight off what we want to get when we get it,  just because it does not happen 100 percent exactly the way that we want it to happen.

Another thing that I think is happening,  is that your mind is playing some ‘tricks’ on you.  It’s probably just a bit of doubt,  like,  is this too good to be true?

Sometimes the mind makes up things like this to either check whether or not we are doing the right thing, OR,  for reasons of self sabotage.

I would just go with the flow of it,  keep doing what has been working,  the things that you have picked up from me… and let the MAGIC happen.

Meaning,  work her till you get her back,  and then ENJOY the fact that she is back in your life.  Let all of the doubt fade out,  deal with it,  whatever.

Just don’t let it STOP you from getting what you WANT!

-Chris Tyler,  Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Now

 

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Where Do Most Guys Go Wrong?

11. April 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , , ,

It certainly can be a pretty nerve racking experience to have to deal with having your girlfriend break up with you. Gone are the memories that you shared as well as the hopes and the dreams that you may have had which always seemed to include her in it in some way. Is this really the end of the road for your relationship or is there some way that you can turn things around and make your ex girlfriend want to come back to you?

Knowing where most guys go wrong when they ask themselves the question, “how do I get my girlfriend back,” can actually help you out more than you may realize. See, when you get a good idea on the things that you should not be doing in order to get her back, you are much more likely to get what it is that you should be doing.

Here’s where most guys go wrong when they want to get their girlfriend back:

1. They make the situation seem much more dramatic than it really is.

When you make the situation seem much more dramatic than it really is, it is going to be hard for you to get out of that “funk” and really get down to the business of winning back your girlfriend. You should not take it too lightly of course, but you also should not make it seem like it is a hopeless desire, either. It can be done, and in fact, many guys figure out what works to get her back, so you should be able to as well.

2. They do not give their girlfriend enough time for her to deal with the break up.

Breaking up is hard on everyone involved. If you do not have the courtesy to give her some time to deal with things and have some time to get over whatever was the catalyst for the break up, you are probably not going to get her back. Do not make the mistake of not giving her enough time to deal with things, because it will end up hurting your chances of winning her back for good.

3. They make excuses for messing up, and they don’t learn to adapt to the situation.

While it might feel kind of tricky, you have to be able to adapt to the situation as it plays out. Not being able to adapt causes a lot of guys to actually see and know that they are doing the wrong things and they keep on doing them none the less. If you really want to be able to have her back in your life, then you have to be adaptable as the situation plays itself out.

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I Want to Get My Girlfriend Back – Where Should You Start?

11. April 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , , , ,

Not many people can just bounce back from a breakup as if nothing happened. When you feel as though your heart has been broken, it can be easy to get disillusioned and begin to feel like you haven’t go the foggiest clue on where to begin. The problem with that is, if you don’t even know where to begin to get your girlfriend back, what are the odds that it actually will come to fruition?

When you first get dealt the hand of a breakup, you should take a little time to tend to your wounds and try to go through your mind and figure out what went wrong, what you could have done differently, etc. From there though, you have to be willing to take some kind of action or else nothing probably will happen. Well, something might happen, but probably not what you want it to be. Your ex girlfriend will probably end up moving on and finding someone else.

Here are a few tips on how to get started on winning back your girlfriend:

1. If you want to get your girlfriend back, then it has to be more than just wishful thinking.

Most of the time, guys will just kind of sit back and wish that everything falls into place for them and that they somehow get her back. They don’t really have a strong determined sense that they will do whatever they can that works to change her mind and make her come back to them. You have to do more than just wishfully hope that she comes back to you.

2. To get your girlfriend back, you have to be open to change.

Don’t let your ego get in the way. Obviously something was not quite right if the relationship ended. So, it should be just as obvious that something needs to change. Maybe you did not spend enough time with her, maybe you started to act insecure. Whatever it was, it needs to change if you are going to get her back AND keep her this time around.

3. If you really are determined to win back your ex girlfriend, you NEED to have a proven way of doing it.

Truth is, most of the suggestions that you get from friends, most of the ideas that sound good in your mind are not going to be what you need to do to get her back. If you are serious about getting back your ex girlfriend, find a proven system that is designed to show you how to make it happen and follow it. Don’t move on guess work, because the odds are… you will guess WRONG.

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How to Approach Your Ex Girlfriend If You Want Her Back

28. March 2011 · Comments Off · Categories: Get My Girlfriend Back · Tags: , , , ,

The way that you approach your ex girlfriend will have a big impact on whether or not you end up getting back together with her.  Most men will approach an ex girlfriend that they want to get back with like a love sick puppy dog,  hoping that they get attention from her.  If you do this,  you are probably setting yourself up for a big fat disappointment.  You have to approach your ex girlfriend in a way that is going to set you up for success at getting her back.

When a relationship ends,  most of the time it is because that is what the woman wants.  More often than not,  the break up will be initiated by the woman,  and the guy just has to deal with the cards he is dealt.  The problem is,  most men end up feeling like they have gotten their hearts broken and it makes them act in a way that is less attractive.  So,  they end up having a hard time trying to get her back.

Here’s how to approach your ex girlfriend if you want her back:

1)  Before you make your first move on her,  you have to work on getting over what happened.

If you don’t allow yourself to deal with and process the break up so that it no longer stings that much,  you are going to let it show when you do approach her.  And more than likely,  that will make you act in a way that does little to make her want you back.  So,  give yourself some time to heal and deal with what happened.  You don’t want to bring any emotional baggage with you when it comes time to approach your ex girlfriend.

2)  When you approach your ex girlfriend,  it has to be in the context of just hanging out.

Don’t get on the phone with your ex girlfriend and immediately blurt out the hope that you have of getting back together.  If you do that,  more than likely she will end up coming up with an excuse to avoid seeing you.  You need to approach your ex girlfriend more in the context of just spending some time hanging out together.  That way,  she is more likely to be up for it.

3)  You have to condition yourself to approach your ex girlfriend as if she was a new woman in your life.

This may be the hardest part,  but as long as you DO condition yourself to see her in this way,  then you CAN get her back.  See,  if you come at her reminding her of the past,  then part of that past is whatever made her want to break up with you.  You don’t want her to be thinking of that,  do you?  When you approach her like a new woman and leave the past in the past,  it’s easier to set yourself up to make her want you back in her life.

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