A lot of the times, I am dealing with the issue of a guy getting dumped by his girlfriend. That in of itself is painful enough. What if the relationship is a little deeper than just a boyfriend/girlfriend scenario? What if it is your wife who wants to leave you? Can you change her mind or is it something that is outside of your control?
While I would love to be able to give out a single answer to a question like that, I really can’t. I mean, it is possible to change your wife’s mind if she wants to leave you. Whether or not YOU will be able to do that is another story.
It all depends on the situation, it depends on you.. and it depends on her.
When a woman is totally fed up with a marriage that just has not worked out, it can be harder to change her mind than when it is just a typical boyfriend and girlfriend thing. On the other hand, many women are more likely to try and work to save their marriage if they see any glimmer of hope, all because the stakes are much greater.
Just like you would if she were girlfriend, your best bet is to work more on making her feel attracted to you than to try and appeal to her logical side. The one good thing, though, is that her logical side can also come into play, because there are things like the house, the kids (if any), and the money.
Here’s how to get started on changing her mind:
1) Avoid any talk as much as you can about splitting up.
The more you talk about it, the more you look at it as being the most likely outcome… the more it likely it will be. Of course, you want to be mentally prepared for the relationship to come to an end, but when talking with her – you want to talk as little about it as possible.
2) Work hard on appealing to her emotions so that she is open to working things out.
Use the fact that women are a little more emotional than men are to your advantage. Instead of sitting down and trying to talk her out of leaving, do things that make her want to stay. Think more solution oriented than problem oriented.
3) More than anything else you can do, you want to stay positive.
Positive thinking by itself does not always create a positive outcome, but thinking negatively almost always does bring about a negative outcome. Keep yourself from feeling down as much as possible. Do whatever you can to stay in a positive frame of mind, ESPECIALLY when you are around your wife.
Most of the SAME principles that work in winning back an ex girlfriend will work on your wife as well. That’s why I highly suggest that you check out this page here.
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